What's happening now is kind of disgusting. Lois' fans call Chloe's fans psychos and we do the same to them in return. But frankly, we are all the same.

Remember when we didn't know if AM will return? Many of us claimed that we have already seen Lois&Clark show. We were angry and very loud about it. Well, now it's turn for team Lois to be angry that AM is back for whole season and they don't know if will ED be there only for 13 episodes or more. It's their turn to claim that they won't watch Chloe&Clark show.

"When we blame ourselves we feel no one else has a right to blame us." Oskar Wilde

For the big ChloexLois debate, it should be more like: When we complain about Chloe/Lois we feel no one else has the right to complain about them too, because that would be bashing.

Chloe's fan is bashing Lois when she/he is complaining about Lois entry to journalism and DP. Lois' fan is free to complain about it as much as he/she wants. And other way around. Lois' fans can't complain about what Chloe did because we would call it bashing.

Chloe/Lois is useless to the story. Both group of fans are saying it. When fan of Lois writes that Chloe is useless, other fans agree and say it's just opinion and truthful one in it, should they be asked about it by some randomly wandering/stalking fan of Chloe. When they see the same written about Lois, it's bashing. The best part is that I've been in fandom long enough to know that Chloe's fans do exactly the same thing.

Fan of Chloe can write that she isn't acting as Chloe anymore or that he/she wishes AM won't be back for next season. Said fan can write it because it's his/her opinion and a way how to vent frustration over the show. In case it's written by fan of Lois, he/she is called hater and frustrated over EDLois and her nonILL behavior.

Fan of Lois can write that Lois wasn't acting as ILL should and show frustration over her inability to publish her work and get information by herself. It's okay because said fan is just frustrated over Smallville. No one else can say it without being called ED hater and Chloiser.

Many of Chloe fans are getting ridiculed by Lois fans when they claim they will stop watching if AM will leave the show. 
Lois' fans say that we don't really like Smallville and watch just to see Chloe. Well sweethearts, it's true. Do you want to know why?
 Because we have been watching since season 1. We remember when the show had good storylines and characters were actually getting some real development. These times ended with the last episode of season 3. 
See, that's the problem because these fans who makes fun of us, wouldn't know it because they didn't actually see first three seasons. They started watching just when they found out that Lois came to Smallville.
See, we would stop watching if AM left but many Lois' fans started watching when Lois came. What exactly is the difference? Who likes the show more?

Chlark is not going to happen because Clark doesn't love Chloe and is destined to be with Lois. Too bad guys, the universe where Clois is destiny, doesn't have Chloe in it. 
Clois is not going to happen because Clark doesn't love Lois and Lois and Clark didn't even know each other in that stage of life. Too bad guys, welcome to the 'available for all women Clark Kent' verse.

I could keep doing this for another four hours but I don't want to and I hope, you see what I meant by this post.

Frankly, we are doing exactly the same things as other fans do. When we do it, we call it expressing ourselves. When they do it, we call it bashing. 

Can't we just stop that. If you guys can't play nice, stay at your side of sand box. I'm not asking for people to agree with me, I'm asking them for discussing their opinions with me as civilized and educated human should.

So before you go to attack other fans on KSite, LJ or in real life remember these three mottos:

"I used to think anyone doing anything weird was weird. Now I know that it is the people that call others weird that are weird." Paul MacCartney

"The capacity for getting along with our neighbor depends to a large extent on the capacity for getting along with ourselves. The self-respecting individual will try to be as tolerant of his neighbor's shortcomings as he is of his own." Eric Hoffer

"The only way to make sure people you agree with can speak is to support the rights of people you don't agree with." Eleanor Holmes Norton

if it's too much to remember than just think of one short but powerful word: Tolerance